Hello & Welcome,

I’m Queen Rose, your Head Mistress and if you’re reading this then you’ve been invited to my QueenDOM. My mission is to Break-Taboos through education and sacred sexploration. So, if that’s your desire then you’re in the right place & I’m so excited you’re here! 

First and foremost, Breaking-Taboo has been my brainchild for 3 years now and is finally expanding into a heart centered, passionate BDSM School for the Louisville community & beyond. I will be offering both online & in-person classes, workshops, & mentorship in Dominance & Submission, in Sacred Sexuality & all things Kink.

All the content on this site will be related to these topics

  • Make sure you are of legal age to be viewing sexually explicit content. By coming to this site and accessing its content, I am going to presume that you are a “yes” on both these counts — that you are of legal age for viewing sexually explicit content

  • That you have a genuine interest in exploring the topics mentioned above & are not coming here to troll. Trolling or disrespect of any kind will not be tolerated and you will be removed from the community before you can even blink

The second purpose of Louisville’s School of BDSM is to create a vibrant community of like-minded people who are interested in this exploration. 

  • Yes, we do already have an amazing BDSM & Lifestyle community here in Louisville & my goal is to add an educational component to it

  • I have been attending communities like these in-person for over 5 years & living a BDSM lifestyle for 10

  • This membership platform will add privacy, discretion & safety as we all learn together, because members will be vetted

Because the subject matter is sexual and kinky in nature, it is even more important that the people who show up to participate in this community compose themselves well.  Collectively, we want to create a solid container here within which these explorations can happen.  To that end, please follow these 5 guidelines of comportment:

BE DECOROUS

Act like you are a character in a Jane Austen novel.  Act as if you are such a character who has arrived at a formal ball or dinner party.  Please shed the sloppy comportment that is all too common in our 21st century — especially so when the inhabitants of these modern times are at their computers.

Present yourself with dignity and some flare.  Speak well.  Write in complete sentences.  Spell-check your writing.  Be interested and invested in making a good impression on your community members.  Your future lovers and life-partners could very well come from this community of well-trained individuals.  So act accordingly.  Act to make a good impression.

What you and your fellow community members are going to be sharing here is going to be of a very intimate nature; it is bound to be vulnerable.  Many people will be sharing what they are sharing about themselves for the first time ever. People share things here they have been afraid to share previously with their lovers and spouses. Be mindful of this.

ASK FOR CONSENT & RESPECT IT

Despite the intimate nature of discussions that will most certainly take place here, do not assume consent. Just because what is being shared is intimate, DO NOT ASSUME INTIMACY with anyone. You must ask! 

It is my desire that people do in fact find friends and even lovers, partners, and their future Doms and submissives in this community, but, once again, go about it with the decorousness of a character in a Jane Austen novel, not as some anonymous troll of the internet generation.

Refrain from being too casual or making sloppy sexual advances. Instead, exhibit restraint when you impulsively wish to react based on your desires. DON’T, just don’t. Approach interactions with respect.

“NO” is a complete sentence and does not require an explanation. By being a member of this community you are agreeing to respectfully accept “NO” as an answer without further inquiry or manipulation for the person to change their answer.

BE INTERESTED, NOT INTERESTING

This is a tried-and-true rule of etiquette. Be more curious in the others instead of being long-winded about yourself. Listen more than you comment. Ask questions first and then LISTEN. Don’t think about what you are going to say next, just listen. You might be surprised by the results.

It’s a given that you will receive many wonderful things and experiences from this community, so enter with a mindset of GIVE FIRST.

If you maintain this mindset you will, without a doubt, receive more than you could even imagine. 

MAINTAIN FORMALITY

Formality is one of the great gifts that the D/s realms have to offer. We are all here to be delighted, addressing each other formally is a delight. Try ’Sir’ and ‘Madam’. Be witty instead of snarky. Channel an Englishman’s penchant for understatement instead of screaming your sentiments.

I expect the men here to act like GENTLEMEN. Be decorous. Be dignified. Let your character shine through in everything you say and do. Be transparent and proud of who you are. Never lie!

I expect the women here to act like LADIES. Act from your feminine essence. Be decorous. Embody beauty and graciousness. Display your softness as well as your wellspring of strength and unflappability.  

This is also not a place for political correctness or virtue signaling.  On the contrary, this is a place for delving with honesty and fortitude into the darker chambers of the human soul.  Things can and will get messy here.  It’s precisely because of that that we need to set up a container of self-awareness and formality — and of humor and curiosity.

DISCRETION & SAFETY ARE PARAMOUNT

The beautiful thing about being in a community is that the responsibility of safety & discretion falls to all of us. Collectively it is our job to maintain order, civility and safety within our group. When we can create a safe space for one another to be vulnerable and explore together, unprecedented growth can happen.

This is not permission to act overly righteous.

If you are an offender of such behavior, depending on the severity of the offense, you may be out immediately, or you may enter into a “teaching moment” with the group and be given a second chance. Granted only with the understanding you will correct this behavior forever, moving forward.

Discretion is also key to maintaining safety. “Discretion" refers to the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information. If you know someone from work, a social setting, etc., or you know private information, do not reveal it to others without consent.

Being discreet involves using good judgment and tact in one's actions and decisions, especially when dealing with sensitive or confidential matters. Being discreet means being careful and circumspect in what one says or does, particularly in order to maintain confidentiality, privacy, or decorum. 

Do not get this confused with anonymity because they are not the same. Do not expect to enter this community with full cloak of invisibility. This is the real world and quite frankly there is no such guarantees. However, if you conduct yourself according with these 5 laws of comportment then you should not need such a guarantee. 

To that end, I am going to insist that you use your real picture in your profile.  This is NOT an anonymous community.  Having anonymous players in a community built around sexual expression and education is a non-starter.

You will say and do everything you do here with your your real face attached to it.  Whatever you are not comfortable saying and doing without the mask of anonymity, you should not be doing and saying at all in my opinion, and you most certainly are not going to engage in any of those anonymous, rude or out of line hit & run interactions on my turf.

Once you have been admitted as a Member, please add a photo to your profile, please add your social media profiles and other information to introduce yourself to others. 

Your admission to certain GROUPS on the site will be dependent on me being able to verify that you are a real person who is interested in being engaged and accountable.  For the gender-specific groups, I need to be able to verify easily your pronouns and gender identification preference. If you are not interested in being transparent about your identity to that basic level, please don't bother seeking admission to this community.  

It's an ongoing challenge when attempting to create a solid container for sexuality work: how to keep out the creep factor and how to keep out the trolls. This is a big enough challenge for in-person gatherings, but for a space with an online community & in-person gatherings this challenge gets multiplied 10x.  

The only real solution I have found is that the participants be interested in being seen and in being accountable, and that they demonstrate they are genuinely interested in forming real, healthy human relations with others in the community.

With Gratitude,


Queen Rose 🌹
Professional FemDom
Founder of Breaking-Taboo
Head Mistress at Louisville’s School of BDSM